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Adults Acting Like Toddlers

September 17, 2009

The marvelously insightful and equally clever Bruce Kluger puts a little perspective on all the news-hogging, badly behaving adults, from Congressman Joe Wilson who heckled the President to Kanye West who cruelly flashed his ego at Taylor Swift’s expense. He wonders how our kids can filter out such bad role modeling. Check out the column and let me know your own thoughts.

Himmelman On His New Album and Daring Dadhood

September 9, 2009
Filed under: Music, Family Music, Family Man Recommends, Humor — Family Man @ 8:43 pm

I’ve already revealed my fatherly adoration for Peter Himmelman in the review I did for his My Green Kite album. It’s not like I need to run down all the singer-songwriter’s accomplishments, such as his long career as a performer for grown-ups, his film and TV scoring (i.e., the show Bones, his entertaining Web site and the five family recordings — including his new My Trampoline on the aptly named Minivan record label. So, I’ll let the singer-songwriter do some talking for himself.

FM: What kind of grown man writes songs about African leopard tortoises and pinheads?

PH: I guess you could say that I’m a man who, for better or worse, is way tapped into to his seven-year-old self. Turtle wise: I love my tortoise as much as any man has ever loved a reptile. He’s wise, gentle and extremely big on patience, which is something I’ve discovered is important. As for the pinhead thing…it’s what my wife calls me (in the most tender way I might
add) when she compares the size of my head to my 19 year old son’s.

FM: What’s different or particularly outstanding about this bouncy new album of yours compared to your previous family-friendly discs?
   
PH: Oh, that question. It’s for the marketing department. My honest answer is that there’s nothing inherently unique about this record. No special new formula. No laboratory tested techniques on display. Just a continuation of the themes of wonder that I will most likely keep pursuing for a long time.

FM: In your live shows, you improvise songs with children’s names and random concepts. Is this talent the impetus for writing music for kids?
   
PH: No, I’d say that talent (which is partly innate and partly developed), has served me well in almost everything I do — from fatherhood, to being a husband, to my life as a creator in general. Notice I didn’t use a capital C in creator…

FM: How does making music for kids differ from making tunes for adults?

PH: The only real difference is the context from which I’m writing. With kids for example, I’d never write a song about losing a woman or a too high tax bill — these kinds of things are just outside of the experience of a kid and they’d go right by them just as if I were reciting a terse poem to you in Pashtun…which I assume you don’t speak.

FM: What do your children think of your music?

PH: It’s funny how uninterested they’ve always seemed. It’s as though I were an accountant who’s been crunching numbers at his desk after dinner. Making music is just something I’ve always done since they were babies. But, to be more reflective, I happen to know that they are all very proud and inspired to have been raised in a loving home where their father has been doing something rather daring and interesting.

FM: How has family music changed from the time you were a child…assuming you really are a grown-up?

PH: Oh I’m grown up all right. It’s just that at 49, I can’t (or refuse) to forget age 6 or 10 or 25. As far as the family music business or the adult music business goes, I’ve always been a bit outside of what goes on. I do remember some wonderful music by a the Animals, the Beatles, Jimi Hendrix, even Burl Ives and Mitch Miller that I enjoyed a lot as a kid.

FM: Who are some of your favorite musicians, classic to contemporary?
   
PH: Stravinsky, Debussy, Miles Davis, Pete Seeger, Mel Torme, Thelonius Monk, Bob Marley, JJ Cale, The Monkees, Woody Guthrie, Fats Domino, John Lee Hooker… and The Guess Who.

FM: What’s the best way to turn young people on to playing music and being open to listening to different artists?
   
PH: Keep them off network television, keep them tuned into Pandora radio, bring home new recordings for them to listen to, and open up yourself to new sounds and musical experiences.

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For more about Peter Himmelman, listen to/visit his podcast/blog at Furious World, go to his Web site, and be sure to read the review of My Trampoline.

Family Man® on Radio Dad: Are Dads Useless?

Filed under: Radio, Marriage, Pregnancy, Expectant Parents — Family Man @ 7:22 pm

On Mike Austin’s Radio Dad podcast (episode #15), Mike and I discussed a topic I covered in a recent Ask Family Man piece about the anxieties of expectant dads. Listen to the podcast (the third segment of his show), read the article, and check out Mike’s other podcasts and content at his Radio Dad site.

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