A few years ago, I sought the counsel of Dr. David Swanson when my wife and I needed more help with managing our parenting challenges. Swanson was down-to-earth, non-judgmental, and incredibly direct in his advice, which we use to this day. Now, any parent can access Swanson’s insights by reading his new book, Help–My Kid is Driving Me Crazy: The 17 Ways Kids Manipulate Their Parents, and What You Can Do About It. Part of what makes Swanson such a valuable resource — in addition to being a husband and father — is that he treats children, teens, and families as a whole. Even though he’s writing for parents who are beleagured by their children’s use of negotiation, self-victimization, and emotional blackmail, he’s also firmly advocating for the well-being of the children. This book can really help adults feel better and stronger in their efforts to parent their kids.

Bruce Kluger has long written about parenting and politics, though usually in separate situations. But the 2008 Presidential Election inspired him and his co-author, David Tabatsky, to reveal what kids see in the new president. Their new book is Dear President Obama: Letters of Hope From Children Across America, which contains almost 200 letters and drawings from kids in 29 states, of all walks of life, and from every region of the country.

The collection of letters began when Kluger and Tabatsky e-mailed friends with children, who then forwarded the e-mail to others. Within six weeks, the authors had received nearly 1000 letters. The final group of messages show how much children want to be a part of making a difference in the world, from easing poverty at home to helping those suffering in Sudan. Their voices reflect their dreams as well as the values they are taught by their parents. Learn more about this extraordinary volume of hope at the Web site, which features sample letters and videos from children.

To keep the messages going, please comment on this posting with thoughts your own children may have for our president.